Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Luke's "Episodes"



You might remember back at Mother's Day Luke had what we thought was a seizure or infantile spasm.  

That was May 9.  We were at the hospital around 8 pm, visiting a friend who had a baby.  Luke was sitting in her bed with her just being his happy old self.  Suddenly, his arms jerked out from his body & he stiffened while arching his back.  His mouth was open in a little gasp and his eyes were glazed over.  It took 4-5 of them (each lasting about 2-3 seconds & coming within minutes of each other) before we realized something was going on.  Over about a 15 minute time-span he had 9-10 of these spasms.

We took him to his pedi & she thought nothing of it.  Said it was probably a one-time thing & if it happened again she'd send us to a neurologist.

Well, we watched & nothing happened so it slipped to the back of our brains.

Then on Father's Day around 6:50 in the evening, Luke was playing on the floor with a new toy & he started doing it again.  He had maybe 5 spasms before we left the house, all in a matter of minutes.  By the time we'd gotten to the hospital around 7:45 he'd had more than a dozen.  They were getting more minor though.  Some were as subtle as squishing his head & shoulder together.

By 10:30 we were told we were being admitted & started getting ready for that.  They scheduled an MRI & a short EEG.  Luke didn't have any more spasms after 8:15 that evening.

We had a rough night.  It took 3 tries to get the IV in his little arms.  The little girl (9monthsold) in the room w/ us cried all night.  Her mom kept YELLING at her to shut up & sleep.    I hadn't had any food since 1:00 in the afternoon.  DH had to go home bc there wasn't room for both of us to sit in Luke's room.

I had to get up @ 3:30 to feed him because he wasn't allowed to nurse after 4 am.  At 6:30 he woke up hungry, but I couldn't feed him.

This was the hardest thing about being in the hospital.  When your baby wants to nurse & you can't it just about broke my heart.  

We had the EEG first thing, around 9 am, Luke was a trooper and slept soundly through it.  Afterwards I was able to nurse him a little but only for a few minutes.  We had to keep him awake, because they wanted him to be tired for the sedative they were going to give him for his MRI @ 2:00.

Around 11 am Luke had another episode w/ about 7 spasms.  One of the nurses (an aid maybe) saw them & got the neurologist to come in.  At first he was like, "That? That's nothing." Because it was just one of the head-to-shoulder twitches, but I know my baby.
I told him, no, that is definitely SOMETHING, he does not normally do that!

After the neuro checked him out he said the EEG was perfect & that he did not believe Luke was having seizures.  He suggested that it was myoclonic jerks, probably benign, and said we'd probably do a longer EEG to make sure.

We toughed it out & he fell asleep around 1:00, with an extremely empty belly.  

Somewhere in there we got a new roommate.  A TINY 9 month old boy, all by himself, no family or anything, with LOTS of problems.  He had a catheter, oxygen, several IV bags, and the nurses were talking about changing his dressings over a surgical site multiple times bc he bled through.  We found out later he was trembling because he was detoxing.  Poor little thing.  How does a 9 month old even GET drugged?  They had formula for him (that someone brought) so I don't think he was breastfed.  Anyway, he broke ALL of our hearts.  Over there struggling to get better ALL BY HIMSELF!  Poor baby.  

(This is where I interject that I absolutely HATE going to Children's bc of all the sick/pathetic children/babies, I am not emotionally stable enough for that!)  

Anyway, back to our MRI.  I cried.  It was the first time I broke down.  They gave him the sedative & he freaked out just like I do.  I hate getting put under.  It freaks me out.  He cried and flailed in my arms for about 6 minutes before he went to sleep.  Then I held him for a few more to make sure.  When the nurse asked me to put him in the great big huge gurney I broke down crying.  She asked if she could take him & that just made it worse!  

Finally, I laid my sweet baby boy on the bed and let them take him into the MRI room.  We weren't allowed to go with him.  We went to the Farm Fresh (yes there is a little store in the hossie) and walked around, used the bathrooms, and made a few phone calls.  I was waiting outside the door when they brought him out of the MRI.

He was still completely out.  We had to force him to wake up.  I was able to nurse him while he was waking up & that was wonderful.  

The neurologist came & said that his MRI was perfect.  So, the neuro changed his mind.  He said we could go home but that if Luke continued to have episodes that we should call him back & he would go ahead and do the longer EEG. 

We went home Monday night.

Tuesday Luke had an episode around 11 am and again around 4 pm.  The one at 11 was a big one, with arms jerking & all, but only like 5 spasms.  The one around 4 pm was smaller, with like 5 spasms but only the head/arm twitch spasms.  

We called the neuro last night & waited for a call back.

He called today.  They scheduled Luke for a 4 hour long video EEG tomorrow morning @ 7:30.  

Luke has had a few random spasms today, none that I could catch on camera or see full-on, so I'm not sure if they were episodes or what.  He has been VERY fussy & only fell asleep for a nap @ 3:00.

So tired on Sunday night, he fell asleep in Mandy's arms, I was waiting to feed him until he had his IV in and could go to sleep for the night.





Saturday, June 19, 2010

8 Months Old

My boy is closer to a year old now than he is to being a baby!  Wow!

So, Luke's 8 month birthday passed with no fanfare what-so-ever.  We went to "Auntie" Melanie's house so she could knit him up a pair of super awesome shorties!  They *only* took 10 hours to knit, and are freaking awesome!  Huge thanks to Melanie!!!  Custom knitting is not cheap or easy & we appreciate her time & effort!

Luke weighs 17 lbs and 12 oz fully clothed.  I know this because we went to the doc on Wednesday to find out what was going on with our little guy.
Sunday he had started running a fever & being fussy, but was generally ok.  I thought it was teething so loaded him up with Motrin, Baby Orajel & Hyland's Teething Gel (the Hyland's is just NOT as effective as the Orajel, so I rotate them).  We went to church, the in-laws, and the beach, and he was ok, fussy & a little feverish but ok.
Overnight his fever raged up to 102.7.  The pediatrician said as long as it didn't go over 104 and it didn't last 3 days he was ok.  Well, Tuesday was day 3 and I made the appointment for Wednesday morning.  (after a couple LONG, sleepless days w/ a super mega fussy feverish baby)
Turns out, Lukey had hand/foot/mouth disease.  A very common viral infection that goes around in the summer.  He only had sores in his mouth (down his throat) and his fever broke Wednesday.  Unfortunately there is nothing they can do for it & so Dr. Curry (who has great bedside manner) said we basically have to tough it out.

Luke sits unassisted & has since March 16.  Luke laughs & "talks".  He says dadadada all the time!  He can do the little "Indian call" with the back of his hand to his mouth.  He can roll from his belly to his back in both directions now.  He has been in physical therapy for his torticollis for 5 weeks now & is making lots of improvements.

He doesn't sleep through the night yet, but does have a pretty solid routine at least.

9:30ish-bed
12:30-1:30ish-nurse
5:30ish-nurse
7:30ish-nurse
9:30-up for the day
play, bath, nurse around 11:30-nap
then from 2:00-9:30 his schedule revolves around what we are doing...if we are home he'll normally take another nap around 5 or 7 or both!

He had about 2 weeks of attempting Organic Rice Cereal and although he would eat it, he didn't really like it. (started @ 7 months 5 days) On Saturday June 12 he had some squash at Jay Yanuzzi's wedding.  We tried steaming a butternut squash at home for him & offered it to him on Sunday & Monday but he just played with it & wouldn't eat any.  On Sunday, we tried offering him steamed brocolli at Ruby Tuesday's and he couldn't stand the texture!  He'd get his hand to it, touch it and then recoil like he was disgusted!

His mouth has been too sore to do much more than the required nursing so we haven't tried anything since Monday.  He did take a bottle (Dr. Brown's w/ a preemie nipple) for a while this week.  Nursing was irritating his mouth & so he would chew on the bottle nipple & drink what he got.  I was scared he was getting dehydrated so we gave it a try.  We might try some more now that his mouth is better w/ a bigger nipple & see what he thinks.




Small Talk Six!


See, I'm making a real effort!  Small Talk Six brought to you by the Momdot team is a fun little meme where you answer a question with 6 pictures, words, phrases, or videos!!

This week in honor of Father's Day, What do you & your dad both enjoy/have in common?

1. Chocolate--my Dad & I both love our desserts!
2. Luke--ha ha, no really, my Dad totally gets a kick out of my kid!
3. History stuff--war movies, books, documentaries
4. Chocolate milk
5. Naps
6. Toyotas

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Picture Frame Collage Wall

I've been excited about this ever since Black Friday when I bought the frames!

Tim finally got my picture frame collage wall started.  I had so many frames & not enough pictures!  I LOVE having all these pictures of my boy up in the living room.  I can't wait to get more pictures & more frames to add to it!

Close up of all the frames--they are all black but are a mix of wood & plastic.  I like the different styles blended together.  We have everything from 3 1/2 x 5- 10x13 up there!

Here you can see the whole wall as it is right now.  With Chrissy living here we have the dog cage & my arts & crafts table set up in the living room as well as a huge pile of filing.  Maybe I'll edit this post after she moves out so you can see our living room properly set up.
Anyway, this shot shows how big the wall is & where we set it up.  I plan on adding to it at least each time we get his pictures done or I print new pictures from the camera.

Click on over to Mama Notes to check out her picture frame collage too!

Why a Car is a 'Need' in Our Life

So, I decided to try to get back into my blogging world.  Mostly because I've been spending so much time on Diaperswappers & diaper related pages that Tim has decided I'm obsessed.  In my opinion, I'm not obsessed that just happens to be what interests me....but I digress.


While I was catching up on the thousands of blogs unread in my Google Reader, I happened across this post by Penniless Parenting.  It talks about Needs vs. Wants and she explains why she & her family decided that a car is a want, not a need.


I can see the logic in her decision making...but I have to disagree.  For us, a car is a need.  


I'll cross examine her logic & explain our thinking:


Penny says: 
Purchasing a car is outrageously expensive, especially where I live. 


New cars are expensive as we know!  We had the truck just under 2 years before deciding to sell it at a small loss.  Fortunately for us, my car, a 2005 Toyota Corolla, which can easily be expected to last until 2015, is paid for.  We have no car payment.  We will have to do maintenance/upkeep on it, but fortunately as well our oil changes are covered for a while longer.


Penny says:
The price of gasoline around here has gone up to $6.65 per gallon. 


That is just ridiculous!  If gas cost that much here we definitely would drive a LOT less.  As it is we already conserve gas as much as we can by carpooling & not making unnecessary trips to Virginia Beach or Suffolk.


Penny says:
Insurance is another $85 per month.


Unfortunately, good insurance does cost, and while I don't know what we pay, it is worth it for the peace of mind to know that if anything happens to our little family we will be taken care of financially.


Penny says:
Emissions tests. Another $250 yearly making that 20 dollars per month.


These are not required here in the good ole USofA.


Penny says:Maintenance. If you spend a lot of anew car you can hope to pay fewer maintenance costs, but if you're looking to save at the used car dealership, you'll most likely be paying hundreds a year in regular maintenance, like oil changes, flat tires, and just general fine tuning, not to mention hit and runs, scratches, or accidents that were deemed your fault.
Extra Expenses. Traffic tickets, parking tickets, and parking fees are just some of these extras.


Ok, now these two are just silly to me!  Our oil changes are included in what I paid for my car, Tim does MOST if not all of our maintenance, my car has never been "in the shop".  Hit & runs and accidents are emergencies not something to plan/budge for.  Fortunately our insurance is awesome and covered all but about $600 of the one accident I've had in my car.  


Traffic & parking tickets are the result of either stupidity or arrogance.  Follow the laws and you won't get tickets.  We haven't had either of those in years.  The only places I can think of that we pay to park are MacArthur Center Mall & Busch Gardens.  We've been to MCM about 5 times in the last year & its been more than a year since we went to Busch Gardens. 


Penny says:
Cars Promote Spending. In addition to all the other money sucking aspects of owning a car, when it is easier to get around, it is easy to go to money wasting venues. 


Our new way of managing our money really helps alleviate this.  We don't do a lot of impulse shopping and plan most of our purchases.  We always grocery shop with a list and eat out only when it really is needed or a special occasion.  We also have an eating out budget, so the fact that we have a car doesn't really play into that, if we didn't have a car, we'd find some other way to get out for food.  

Penny says:Pollution and Oil Reliance. I wrote about these two in more depth over here- "Why bother conserving?"
Congestion. There are too many cars on the road...
Danger. Car accidents are one of the leading causes of death in the world. 
Laziness. I'll be shot for saying this, but I think having a car makes people more lazy. 


Pollution & Oil reliance are really political topics I try not to get into on my blog.  I do my part in recycling & not using paper products to help where I feel I can.  I'll leave it at that even though I do have more of an opinion than that.
Congestion is a matter of where you live.  Head 2 hours west to Buckingham.  There's no congestion there.  So, again I think it's relative.
Danger: 


From the CDC:
Number of deaths for leading causes of death

  • Heart disease: 631,636

  • Cancer: 559,888

  • Stroke (cerebrovascular diseases): 137,119

  • Chronic lower respiratory diseases: 124,583

  • Accidents (unintentional injuries): 121,599

  • Diabetes: 72,449

  • Alzheimer's disease: 72,432

  • Influenza and Pneumonia: 56,326

  • Nephritis, nephrotic syndrome, and nephrosis: 45,344

  • Septicemia: 34,234

ALL kinds of accidents are lumped together ranking FIFTH on the leading causes of death.  I think I have bigger things to worry about.  Mostly my health.  
Finally, laziness, I do not find that my car is an excuse to not exercise, my busy lifestyle maybe, but not my car.  There is literally NOTHING within reasonable walking distance to us.  I could DRIVE all the way to Virginia Beach in the time it would take me to walk one-way to 7-11.  I could probably drive to the grocery store in Virginia Beach, shop and drive home in the time it would take me to walk one-way to the closest Wal-Mart.  


Finally, our biggest reason for NEEDING a car is the time it would take for Tim to otherwise get to work.  Living closer to the base is not possible (we could live closer, but still not within walking distance & Tim can't ride a bike).  The commute time via the HRT system would be 3 hours to work in the morning and 3 hours & 15 minutes on the way home.  Adding 6 hours to the time he'd be away from Luke & I.  That's just silly.  


So, we need a car.  That's my story & I'm sticking to it!

Saturday, May 22, 2010

7 Months Update

Luke started rolling on his 7 month birthday!  Way to go!

He also had appointments with his physical therapist & new GI doctor this week.

His PT showed us how to do some exercises to stretch his torticollis.  She also said he'll probably be in therapy until after he learns to walk.  Anybody want to pick me up on Thursday mornings at 8?  We have to be there from 9-10 am.

His new GI doctor thinks that he may be allergic to soy.  I was supposed to stop eating it today, but haven't looked at a label yet today.  Ugh.  My favorite oatmeal cookies from Wal-Mart have soy in them...great.  I wonder if wheat thins do as well.

I have mastitis again.  It started yesterday at the world's stupidest Relay for Life.  It started during rush hour, so it took us over 2 hours to get there.  It was pitch black & impossible to see to walk or anything.  Luke wasn't in his outfit because I thought we had today as well.  Oh well, $20 down the drain, since it won't fit him any longer. (It was going to be a stretch to get him into it today!)

I'm feeling pretty rotten and it stinks.

Monday, May 17, 2010

Quickie Update-7 Months

Well, Luke will be 7 months old tomorrow.  Amazing.  It's crazy how fast time flies!  It's been almost a month since my last blog post!

My little man is SLOWLY showing us that he can INDEED roll over (both ways) he just doesn't really have any desire to do so!

He can pull himself up from a sitting to standing position and can stand holding onto a low surface.

He gives kisses and hugs, reaches up to be picked up or put on/off a shirt, and loves bath time!

He weighs about 17 lbs and is over 2 feet tall!

He wears size 9 months and up clothing and size 1 Stride Rite shoes.  He has wide feet and misshapen toes, so we aren't really using any other shoes.

We had a big scare for about 10 days with bloody poo, finally deduced that raw apples were upsetting Luke's tummy.

We have appointments with a gastroenterologist and a physical therapist.  At Luke's six month appointment his doctor noticed he has a torticollis.    Luke had his first x-rays done on Friday, May 14 of his neck & shoulders.

Luke still hasn't had any solid foods or cereal yet and Mama would like to keep it that way.  He did try eating "breastmilk slushee" off of a spoon with a little bit of success.  I'm getting pressure from Tim & both of our families to start the solids (even though I explain that they aren't TRULY needed yet) so I'll keep stalling them as long as possible!  (Really Tim's opinion is the only one that matters.)

We have found our "niche" in cloth diapers and I'm pretty happy with it, the only problem is it's a pretty expensive niche!!  I love Bagshot Row Bamboo diapers & plan on trying out Elbee Baby diapers next!  I love BumGenius 3.0 One Size diapers too!  Right now I have 10 BSRBs (that fit), and 12 BG 3.0s, and 6 BG All-In-Ones.  I also have a small smörgÃ¥sbord of "generic" diapers that make up our laundry days stash!  The ultimate expensive part of my stash is WOOL!  I am loving it!  I'm working out a custom order with Nicole of DaKine Knits.     I am really coveting "Silly Stripes" but I can't afford to pay retail for them & am going to have to find them used if they are meant to be in our stash!

PurlyQ's Nessie Shorties-I paid for these with "free" Frankin Goose Credit!



My four shorties so far!  Top left-PurlyQ's Nessie
Top right-"Stained Glass"
Bottom left-"Earth"
Bottom right-100Purewool Knit by Melanie

So, when WOOL is your #1 diaper cover, you have to have cute t-shirts to go with it, since onesies are out.  So, I've been spending all my spare dollars (and some that weren't spare!) on tees for Luke (in 9-12 month sizes).  I still don't have ANY shirts that match the army/earth colored shorts & only one that KIND of matches the blue/brown ones.  




This picture is really for Melanie (can you see that tushie?) but it shows one of Luke's new skills.  When I laid him on the bed, he was right up against his toy & could rest his face on it.  I skipped into the bathroom to run his water & he had scooted this far away!  He's starting to get moving, but only if I ignore him, which is SO hard for me!!  

(Right now, Caro is watching Toy Story Animated Storybook on the iPad, while playing with Luke in the bed.) 

Cinco de Mayo was a nice sunny day, but Luke wasn't having any parts of my attempts at an outdoor photoshoot.  These are LITERALLY the best I got:





These pictures are from May 4:

Most of my diaper stash as it was 2 weeks ago....still a work in progress, when I get the last 4 Franklin Goose diapers, I'll update!

Luke showing off his Stained Glass Shorties!


On May 2, we took the Girl Scouts to Mt. Trashmore for Earth Day & then to Haygood Skating Rink for a skating party.  It was 2 firsts for Luke and Auntie Mandy tagged along.  Here are some pictures from that day:


Notice the tongue?  He had JUST started doing that & his tongue hung out of his mouth constantly for at least a week!




Giving hugs! Another new "trick"

Our little family at the Skating Rink, Mama was skating, that's why I look out of balance & all flushed!

The first batch of Franklin Goose "free" diapers came in the mail on April 30, I waited just over a month to receive them, so it was great!! Woot Woot!

I immediately tried them on all three boys!  



Luke was ALMOST 6 months old in this picture.  This is the outfit Melanie made him.  He wore it for his 2 month old professional pictures at church. The pants are the only part that still fit.  I LOVE LOVE LOVE this outfit & can't wait to let the next baby Goetsch wear it.

Around April 14, I went with Melanie & her kids to the eye doctor.  Chloe got to get new contacts...if you look closely you can see the "test" contact in her left eye.  Neat!


April 13, my 3 custom BSRB diapers arrived.  I was so totally stoked!  I love my BSRBs, but they are not going to be the be-all-end-all I thought they were.  Two of mine already shrunk so much Luke can't wear them anymore & they get poo stuck up in the elastic, which is a pain to clean.  I'm looking forward to trying Elbee Baby diapers because they are supposed to be the ULT in cloth diapering!!  
No matter what, I've decided high-end bamboo fitteds are my favorite diapering system, with BG 3.0s for when we NEED an AIO.


Have I told ya'll about Sophie?  This toy at first seemed like the BIGGEST waste of Swagbucks...but...let me tell you...she is AWESOME!  



She is essentially a dog toy for babies.  She's made of soft, collapsible rubber & has a squeaker inside.  She has a silicone like feel & a rubber scent.  She is one of the things I bought with my Swagbucks Amazon gift cards in March.
Well, Luke is hungry & fussing, this post has been several hours in the making.  I hope ya'll enjoy the update!