Lucas Wayne Goetsch
Born @ 9:40am
Weighing in at 6 lbs. 4 oz.
Measuring 19 inches long
My water broke at 2:45 am. Within minutes I began contracting for 30-45 seconds every 2 1/2 minutes. I woke Tim up at 3:20 and told him my water broke. He didn't believe me & had a hard time waking up! Because I had worked hard the day before & we had DTD @ midnight, I wasn't immediately SURE that my water broke. BUT, within 30 minutes I was STILL leaking & then had a few drops of blood when I wiped. I knew then that my water was broken!
We spent the next hour & a half getting the last minute things taken care of & ready to go. I folded laundry, showered, ate some eggs, and finished packing my hospital bag. (We used contraction master.com to time the contractions...or "the ows" while we were doing this stuff.) I couldn't tell the contractions were coming other than the pain got worse...it never really went away.
We arrived at the hospital at about 5:15 am.
We got into the ER & did a quickie triage...then I had to be wheeled to L&D. I tried to walk but they wouldn't let me.
We got put right into a triage room up here. I warned them about my flu-symptoms & was promptly given a mask to wear. The nurse did all the usual stuff & then did an internal exam sometime around 6:00.
She said I was measuring about 2-3 cm. dialated.
She then hooked me up to the monitors & left for a while. Luke's heart rate was around 140-160, peaking during the contractions. The monitor did not pick up the contrax. well, because I kept sitting up & leaning forward during them.
I had INTENSE incredibly painful back labor. DH or his mother had to apply STRONG counter pressure on my lower back or I was in an unimaginable amount of pain!!
Around 7, they finally said I could get off the monitor & start walking the halls. Yay! More than anything I wanted out of the stinking bed!!
So, I walked to the bathroom & went potty. I lost my "mucous plug" then. It was about the size of a 1/2 dollar & red blood w/ a snot mixture.
Then we did 1/2 a lap of the halls before the nurse stopped me. She came rushing up...saying that b/c I was breech at 36 weeks I wouldn't be allowed to "labor down" until I was checked.
Well, the doctor wasn't going to be in until "around 8" and it was only a little after 7. I begged & pleaded...but lost. I had to return to bed...and monitors...and was NOT to try to progress things on my own.
ARGH.
So, I got into bed. I managed to avoid the monitor for a while. The contractions were getting a lot stronger & closer together. I sat in the bed indian style & DH & his mom took turns rubbing my back through the contractions.
As I got more & more in pain, and the nurse did more & more stuff requiring me to lay down, I started to lose control during the contractions. After 8 am, I started to get really upset. The nurse could tell things were moving along & decided to check me herself w/o the doctor. She did an internal, said, "that's his butt" and then threw me on the ultrasound machine.
I cried during the US. I knew I was headed for a c-section & it hurt like the dickens to be flat on my back.
As soon as she & another nurse (who was already in the room) confirmed that he was still breech, my awesome nurse (Rebecca) started making the arrangements for my c-section.
(Tim and I had already discussed that a version performed by a doctor who didn't want to do one, was a bad idea & that the section was our best option.)
The doctor showed up around 8:30 and did his own quickie ultrasound. He made the official call that we'd be doing a section & things really started picking up.
I was upset & crying over the section/loss of control by that point. I forgot to focus through the contractions, which made the pain quite unbearable. I was crying a lot & making a lot of noise through contractions that were 2 minutes or less apart.
I got my IV in and they started prepping me for surgery. The nurse shaved me & really upset me b/c she was rough & went REALLY low. Lower than I think was needed. I was shaking & really scared.
At 9:15 am I was rolled into the OR. Tim couldn't come in until after I had my spinal. I was a shaky whine-y mess.
After the spinal (with tears a rolling down my face) I was laid down & they got the room ready. Though I couldn't see & was numb past my breasts, I could tell that I was spread eagle & naked on the table except for my boobs. It was not pleasant.
After they got started I was silently crying & holding Tim's hands. I kept saying "I don't like it." because I didn't like the way the tugging & pulling felt. It was not fun, but not miserable or painful in any way.
Well, there's more to the story, but I can't keep my eyes open. I'll leave you with a few pictures & then I'll finish later.


So sorry you had a rough time. Luke is so HANDSOME!! Congrats!
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry that things had not worked out fully the way you wanted them too....But Luke is gorgeous!I am so happy for you, your husband and the rest of your family! :-)
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Steph!! He's a very handsome fella!! You did an amazing job, Welcome to Mommyhood!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations Stephanie! He is a beautiful baby! You did great!
ReplyDeleteI had a quite similar experience in April with the birth of my baby girl, she was also early (37 weeks) my water broke and I had to be induced, then she was breech and I had to have a c-section, only add in a few mean and pushy doctors/nurses, lol. It was not easy to go through but now I am just happy to have my baby.
ReplyDeleteI wish you the best with your little son!
He is absolutely beautiful!!!! My first son's birth went very different than I had planned as well. If you ever need a gal who knows about that to chat with, my e-mail is on my page. =) Rest up & enjoy your baby-moon!!!! I cant wait to read more & see more pictures of Luke! Congratulations to your new family!!!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear you had to have a c-section. It is very disappointing, I know. Congrats on your beautiful new baby boy though. I hope you are finally recovered.
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